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Gossip Ghibah And Tale-Bearing Namimah

I start with the name of Allah, praise be to Him. I humbly ask Allah to raise the rank of Prophet Muhammad and his kind Al and Companions and to protect his nation from that which he fears for them. May Allah grant us sincere intentions and facilitate for us rewardable deeds and their acceptance.

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Thereafter, Allah, the Exalted, endowed upon His slaves uncountable endowments. Allah said in Surat Ibrahim, Ayah 34:







which means: [Should you attempt to count your endowments from Allah, you would be unable.]

The tongue is one of many endowments Allah bestowed upon His slaves. Although the tongue is a tiny organ, the person who uses it to comply with the orders of Allah, the teachings of the Qur'an, and the teachings of the Prophet may earn blessings in this world and the in Hereafter. However, the one who uses his tongue in disobedience does not display thankfulness to Allah and leads to his own destruction. Certainly, being thankful to Allah means not using the endowments bestowed by Allah in what is forbidden.



One needs to know the sins of the tongue can be small or enormous. One should be aware some of these sins take the person out of Islam, as the Prophet, sallallahu ^alayhi wa sallam, said in the hadith related by at-Tirmidhiyy:



which means: <> This hadith clearly refers to the bottom of Hellfire--a place only the blasphemers will reach.



Included among the sins of the tongue are gossip (ghibah) and tale-bearing (namimah). Ibn Abid-Dunyia related the Prophet, sallallahu ^alayhi wa sallam, said:





which means: <> In this hadith lengthy silence means not speaking--except for what is good, such as remembering and praising Allah and teaching others what is good.



Al-Bukhariyy and Muslim related from the route of Abu Hurayrah, that the Prophet said:





This hadith means: <> We are responsible for our words. Allah said in Surat al-Isra’, Ayah 36:





which means: [One is responsible for what he hears, sees, and believes.]



At-Tirmidhiyy narrated a saying of the Prophet to the Companion, Mu^adh Ibn Jabal, in which he responded to Mu^adh by saying:





In this hadith the Prophet answered the question of Mu^adh Ibn Jabal, confirming what makes the people fall into Hellfire on their faces is the reaps of their tongues.



Hence, wisdom entails that one uses his tonguewhich means: <>



Due to the importance of this subject the scholars of Islam were compelled to write extensively about it. Among the great scholars of Islam is Imam al-Ghazaliyy, who said about the tongue:



in remembering Allah, performing obedience, ordering the lawful, and forbidding the unlawful. Let us remind ourselves of what Allah said in Surat Qaf, Ayah 18:





which means: [Raqib and ^Atid write down every uttered word.] However, it is known that some of these sinful words will be erased if the person repents. On the Day of Judgment wouldn’t each one of us want to have all good words in his record and not those disliked or sinful words?



Thus, it is important to emphasize on matters relating to the tongue. The Prophet advised us in a hadith related by at-Tirmidhiyy:





which means: <> In the hadith related by al-Bayhaqiyy, the Prophet said:





which means: <>



Due to the importance of this subject the scholars of Islam were compelled to write extensively about it. Among the great scholars of Islam is Imam al-Ghazaliyy, who said about the tongue:







which means: "The tongue is a great endowment from Allah; though small in size, its crime is enormous." A person may utter words of praise and thankfulness to Allah for which he earns reward. One might also utter a word that take him out of Islam--thereby loosing the reward of all his previous good deeds. Reported in the texts of the scholars are narrations that highlight significant matters of the tongue. Among these is what Imam an-Nawawiyy reported:



Qiss Ibn Sa^idah and Aktham Ibn Saifiyy met together. One of them asked the other, "Generally how many errors have you found the sons of Adam commit?" The other replied, "I have counted 8000 such errors, but let it be known, we cannot count them all. However, there is one good trait that would cover up for all of these errors and mistakes: To have control over one’s tongue."



Imam ash-Shafi^iyy, in addressing his companion, ar-Rabi^, said:





which means: "Do not haphazardly speak without a need. Once uttered, you no longer control the words, but they control you." That is, once you speak a word it will be to your benefit if it is good. However, if it is sinful, then it will be written against you and will require a valid repentance.



^Abdullah Ibn Mas^ud said:





which means: "The tongue is the thing that deserves imprisonment most ." Other scholars said:





which means: "The tongue is like a beast. If you do not tie it up, it attacks you." Various scholars talked at length about issues related to the tongue to highlight for Muslims the importance of keeping control of one’s tongue. When asked about the one who controls and protects his heart the most, Dhun-Nun al-Misriyy, (Ibrahim Ibn Tawbah) replied: "The one who controls his tongue the most."



Allah made the tongue witness to what is in the heart, as mentioned by the great scholars of Islam. Words of goodness reflects what is in the heart, as sinful or blasphemous words reflect what is in the heart.

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Gossip (Ghibah)

Gossip (ghibah) is a disease prevailing in many societies. In addressing this issue, let us remind ourselves and others to be cautious of spreading this disease. Allah said in Surat al-Hujurat, Ayah 12:







In this verse, Allah ordered us not to commit gossip (ghibah) amongst one another as it is similar to one eating the flesh of his dead brother. Allah gave us this comparison to show the ugliness of this sin and to guide us to clear ourselves of it. There are many hadiths of the Prophet highlighting the unlawfulness of gossip (ghibah). Among them is one related by al-Bukhariyy and Muslim from the route of Abu Musa al-Ash^ariyy:





This hadith refers to when the Prophet was asked about the best among the Muslims, to which he replied: <> Also, in a hadith related by Abu Dawud from the route of Anas, he said:











This hadith refers to when Prophet Muhammad ascended to the skies. He passed by people who were scratching their faces and chests with nails made of brass. The Prophet asked Jibril who those people were, and Jibril replied, "The ones who were eating the flesh of other people." This is a direct reference to those who commit gossip (ghibah).



When the Prophet spoke about gossip (ghibah), he gave a very specific definition. In a hadith related by Muslim, Abu Dawud, an-Nasa'iyy, and at-Tirmidhiyy, from the route of Abu Hurayrah, the Messenger, when asked about gossip (ghibah), said:









The Prophet defined gossip (ghibah) as mentioning something about your Muslim brother that he hates. The Prophet was asked, "What if that thing I mentioned was something truthful about him?" The Prophet said, "If it was in him, then you have committed gossip (ghibah), and if it was not in him, then you have committed al-buhtan"--which is a sin more enormous than gossip (ghibah).



Hence, gossip (ghibah) is mentioning about your Muslim brother something that he hates, whether he is alive or dead. (The precept is that if the person spoken about would be hurt by your words reaching him, then it is gossip (ghibah). Therefore, mentioning about your Muslim brother something he hates is gossip (ghibah)--whether regarding his body, dress, house, character, or the like.



Many people fall into gossip (ghibah) as a result of negligence and not having proper control over their tongues. Examples of gossip are to say about another Muslim:



He is short.

He is cross-eyed.

He is rude.

He likes to sleep a lot.

He eats too much.

His house is messy.

His son is rude.

He is controlled by his wife.

He is too fat.

He does not have good taste.

His car is ugly.

His father is a garbage collector--(with the purpose of slandering him.)



These are only a few examples of gossip (ghibah) recognized by most people. May Allah protect us from committing gossip (ghibah) which is an enormous sin when committed against a pious Muslim. However, if gossip (ghibah) is committed against sinful Muslims, it is not always an enormous sin.



Some people say gossip (ghibah) is an enormous sin by scholarly consensus (ijma^), however this is not a sound opinion. Hence, if one commits gossip (ghibah) against a non-pious Muslim, we do not generalize and say it is an enormous sin. However, if it reached a stage of exaggeration, exceeding the limit in the Religion, it is classified as an enormous sin. This is known from the hadith of the Prophet related by Abu Dawud:





which means: <> The Prophet resembled exaggerating in committing gossip (ghibah) against the Muslim and the highest levels of usurious gain (riba) indicating the enormity of the sin. Furthermore, listening to gossip (ghibah) also is unlawful in Islam. Praising the actions of the God-fearing Muslims in Surat al-Qasas, Ayah 55, Allah said:





which means: [If they hear gossip (ghibah) they walk away.] That is, they neither approve nor lend their ears to gossip. At-Tirmidhiyy related the Messenger of Allah said:





which means: <> Hence, if within a gathering of people someone is committing gossip, then it is obligatory on the others to forbid this. If they are unable to stop it by speaking or by force, then they must leave that gathering and hate the gossip in their hearts. In this way they escape being sinful themselves.



Highlighting what was the practice of some pious Muslims in that regard; it was related Ibrahim Ibn Adham was once invited to a banquet. When the guests were seated, some people mentioned the name of a person not in attendance by saying his presence was not pleasant anyway. Ibrahim Ibn Adham immediately reacted by saying: "This is what I have done to myself; I have allowed myself to be present in a session with people who commit gossip (ghibah)." He immediately departed that banquet without eating anything, and he continued to abstain from eating for three days.



Furthermore, if a Muslim committed enormous sins and then repented to Allah, it is not permissible for any of us to mention these sins about that Muslim because he already repented. The criterion for judging the Muslim is by his current prevailing state. As related by al-Hakim in his book, al-Mustadrak, the Prophet, in highlighting this matter, said:





This means: <> . The prevailing state of the one who repented a valid repentance is that Allah has forgiven him for committing that sin and so this is why we don’t mention it.



At the time of our Master ^Umar Ibnul-Khattab, a man came to him and told him: "In the Era of Ignorance, I buried my daughter alive, however, at the last moment I took her out. Then Islam spread, and we became Muslims. Time passed, and then this daughter of mine fornicated and later attempted to commit suicide by slitting her wrists. Afterwards she repented a valid repentance. Some people asked me for her hand in marriage. I told them her story so that I would not cheat them about my daughter." ^Umar scolded that man and told him: "You have spread that which Allah ordered covered about your daughter. Let me warn you: If you tell anyone about this story again, I shall punish you in a manner that will make you an example for all the people."



From this story we understand that once a Muslim repents from his sins, it is unlawful to mention these sins about him. Therefore, the prevailing precept for the person must always be his prevailing situation.



There are certain cases the scholars of Islam excluded from being a sinful gossip (ghibah). These are classified into six categories, and one would not be sinful for committing gossip (ghibah) if his case fell into one of these six:



1. To go to the Muslim judge or one with jurisdiction to tell him about an injustice done to him in order to help him take his right.



2. To talk about a person’s sins that he hates mentioned, in order to seek help in preventing the person from continuing their sins. Hence, one is not sinful if he knows a Muslim who is committing a particular sin, and informs another of that matter so that the latter will help the sinful Muslim refrain from committing those sins.



However, be advised here of a very fine line: Many times a person lets loose his grudges against another to break him and seek revenge. Still, this person bluffs himself by claiming his intention is to help that person clear himself of his sin. In such a case, one does not escape the sin of gossip (ghibah).



3. To tell the mufti about someone else’s sin that he hates mentioned for the purpose of seeking the judgment of that particular matter. For example, for a man to tell the mufti his wife leaves the house against his permission does not make him sinful if one is seeking the religious judgment on that matter. However, the scholars said in such a case, one is recommended not to mention names, but to phrase the question in the third person. For example, to say: "What is the judgment according to the Religion if one's wife left the house against her husband’s permission?"



4. To depict a person with one of his attributes that he hates mentioned with the purpose of identifying him. For example, it is allowed for someone to tell his son to go and give some money to ‘the one-legged man next door,’ to clarify for the son exactly which man is meant.



5. To tell about another person’s sins which he himself openly declares. Hence, it is not sinful for one to tell about a person who himself declares he drinks alcohol or does so publicly.



6. To warn other Muslims against a sinner. This is a very important issue. It is an obligation on us to warn against those who cheat Muslims. If, for example, one knows of a waylayer targeting a route along which Muslims intend to travel, one would be sinful if he kept silent from warning the Muslims of this, thereby letting them fall prey to the waylayer. Moreover, it is more of an obligation to warn against those who cheat Muslims in their Religion than to warn against those who cheat in the worldly matters. If one knows of anyone who cheats the Muslims in their Religion, by falsely claiming to be knowledgeable, teaching them blasphemy, and/or giving them answers to Islamic questions that are incorrect--then it is an obligation to warn the Muslims against them.



In a hadith related by al-Hakim, which he classified as sahih, and was agreed upon by adh-Dhahabiyy, the Messenger of Allah said:





This hadith means: <> Also, in a hadith related by al-Bayhaqiyy, the Prophet said:





The meaning of this hadith is: <> Thus, we are encouraged to go out and warn the people against those who cheat and do ill things to the Muslims--so that Muslims may heed the warning.



Muslims who practice this methodology of the Prophet and adhere to the teachings and the principles of Ahl us-Sunnah stand up and defend the creed of the Prophet. They defend and protect Muslims against the swindlers who do injustice to themselves and others.



Praise be to Allah, the members of the Association of Islamic Charitable Projects (A.I.C.P.) implement these teachings. Teachers at the various A.I.C.P. stand up and warn the Muslims against the sayings of ignorant people which lead to blasphemy or wrong rulings Be firm in the knowledge that when we expose wrongdoers, it is in fulfillment of the great obligation; to order the lawful and forbid the unlawful. The Muslims are obligated to order the lawful and forbid the unlawful. May Allah enable us to proceed with our endeavors and complete our tasks.

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Tale-Bearing (Namimah)



Tale-bearing, (namimah) is defined as spreading words among believers with the purpose of stirring up enmity and problems between them This matter is forbidden. It is unlawful and sinful. Allah dispraised such people in the Qur'an in Surat al-Qalam, Ayah 12:

This ayah highlights how ugly the sin of tale-bearing (namimah) is. In the hadith related by al-Bukhariyy, the Prophet said:





which means: <> That is, the Muslim who died without repenting of his sin of tale-bearing (namimah) will be tortured in Hellfire before entering Paradise.



Moreover, know that the reasons for most of the torture in the grave are gossip (ghibah), tale-bearing (namimah), and not clearing oneself from urine.

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I ask Allah to protect us from falling into gossip (ghibah), tale-bearing (namimah), and other sins. May Allah make us among those who soundly prepare themselves for the Day of Judgment and among those who use the endowments Allah bestowed upon them in sincerity and obedience.


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